Elvis Has Left the Building

Burial. Cremation. Body donation. Those are the three options available for your post-life body. This is an easy place to start for getting your parting wishes down on paper. Don’t make your family guess, struggle to remember, or possibly argue over what they...

Somber reflection

I just got home from seeing American Sniper. So many feelings. Can’t not contemplate life, and death, vulnerability, fate. Even thinking “I Want a Fun Funeral” seems impossibly wrong. There’s nothing amiss with my mission of better funerals,...

Quick question, gut reaction

Quick, without overthinking or analyzing — What feeling does the topic of your own funeral provoke in you?  Fear? Nervousness? Morbidness? Anxiety? Delight? (Sorry. Making sure you’re really thinking.) I’m trying to get a handle of what emotion it is that...

Valentine's Day even here

No one wants to talk about death and funerals on Valentines’ Day. Not even me, who has practically no boundaries on the topic. But what is apropos, and not antithetical, is love. Because when someone we’ve loved with all our heart is no longer here, that...